You Learn

"After some time you learn the difference, the subtle difference between giving a hand and chaining a soul.

And you learn that to love don't mean to lean on, and that company doesn´t always mean safety.

And you begin to learn that kisses are not contracts and presents are not promises.

And you begin to accept your defeats with your head held high, with an adult's grace and not with a child's sadness.

After some time you learn that the sun burns if you are exposed to it for a long time.

And you learn that it doesn't matter how much you care, some people simply don't care... and you accept that doesn't matter how good a person can be, they will hurt you once in a while and you need to learn to forgive them for that.

And what matters is not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life. You realize that it takes a long time to become the person that you want to be, and that time is short.

You realize that just because somebody doesn't loves you the way that you want, it doesn't mean that somebody don't love you as much as they can, therefore there are people that love us, but they simply don´t know as how to show it or to live it.

You learn that it is not always enough to be forgiven by someone, sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

You learns that it doesn't matter in how many pieces your heart was broken, the world doesn't stop so that you can repair it.

Therefore, plant your garden and decorate your soul, instead of hoping someone will bring you flowers..."

William Shakespeare